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Precious Memories of our darling son and brother   

born on  5th march 1987, left us on 12th november 2001
At the age of fourteen
LOVED AND MISSED SO VERY MUCH
                                                 
                                              

                            
                                                                                                                     
Jamie collapsed and died in an english lesson at school. The teacher had asked for volonteers to see who could get the most marshmallows in there mouths, we beleived Jamie had choked but his death was put down to a heart attack from natural causes. To this day we cannot beleive such a fit and healthy boy could die this way.

     
                                                
Jamie was the sweetest most caring son any parent could wish for.
He lived his life to the full, packing in so much that most people do in a life time, he loved sport especially fishing, football, rugby and windsurfing.
Jamie,s dream was to become a airline pilot, and from 12 years old he wrote to all the airlines to get imformation on how to fullfill his dream.
                      

Jamie was loved by everyone that met him from the young to the old.People used to say that jamie could lift the spirits of the most depressed person.
He always had girlfriends from a young age, we were always told that he would break many hearts and that he certainly did. Two years after Jamie was born we were blessed with his little sister Jodie, jamie loved his little sister so much, he was like a little mother hen to her, wanting to help in every way to look after her, they were both so close..
Jamie loved school especially history and science lessons. We remember when we went to the parents evenings and the teachers said it is a privilidge to have jamie in our class, we wish all the pupils were like Jamie. We wanted to cry you made us proud in everything you did.
Jamie loved helping his dad with DIY round the house but we will never forget the time we had a black car and you decided to paint it white.

                  
                                                                    
 Hundreds attented jamie's funeral, we couldent even have it in our church, because it wasnt going to be big enough. Jamie's dad read out a beautiful tribute, he didnt think he would be able to do it, but from somewhere he found the strenght. Two of his cousins read out poems, and the deputy head of his school read out a lovely tribute summing up just how wonderful jamie was and how he would be missed by hundreds of people. There wasnt a dry eye in the church, we were even told that judy the wonderful funeral director was in tears.  



                                                 
                                
Jamie will be missed and loved forever by his heartbroken mum, dad, sister, nana,s, grandad,s, auntys, uncles, cousins and many friends.
Jamie the day you left part of us went too, our lives will never be the same without you here, love you forever and ever.  
 
                
                                                  
                  

                                    
                   

                 
  
                                         
        





                 
                                          
PLEASE LIGHT A CANDLE SO WE KNOW YOU'VE BEEN, WE LOVE HEARING ABOUT THE MEMORIES THAT JAMIE'S FRIENDS HAVE OF HIM, THINGS THAT EVEN WE DID'NT KNOW 
 
                                            
                                         



                                                 


                                    


                                                      

 
                                                      

NEWSPAPER CUTTING
PROUD DAD'S TRIBUTE TO TRAGIC JAMIE

A heartbroken father paid tribute to the son he hailed as, Jamie Bucknell, number one, simply the best.
Keith Bucknell told hundreds of relatives and friends of a boy full of love and kindness when he addressed mourners at the 14 year old's funeral.
Jamie died last week after suffering a massive heart attack. It had to be massive to have stopped that lad's heart, because his heart was massive, he said. I dont think it could hold anymore love.
Mr Bucknell spoke through sobs to the village's packed church filled by well wishers. Among them were hundreds of jamie's school friends.
The teenager died after collapsing in front of shocked school mates during a lesson.
His father said he was always putting other peoples feelings first. He could'nt even leave the dinner table without thanking is mum for the meal, even if it was'nt very nice.
Mr Bucknell continued He had such an amazing smile and infectious laugh, it sparkled so much it lit up the room.
He had so many expectations and ambitions, but the biggest one he acheived with ease. That was to make me and his mum debbie proud, and oh, how proud he did make us.
The gathering heard of a young man who was kind, generous, and loving, who was popular, conscientious and full of enjoyment for life.
A manchester united supporter, he loved sport.
A few weeks ago he was chuffed to bits because he made is debut in goal for strensall under 15's said Mr Bucknell. He saved a penalty and I was so proud, so pleased that i was there to share it with him.
The family have received hundreds of cards and letters from well wishers including strangers.
His father spoke of how muched he loved his sister Jodie and his girlfriend Helen.
Helen and Jamie were so obvisously in love, it was a joy to see them togther he said.
We\are so glad that he experienced and shared such a special love with you Helen.

                                                          
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Tributes and Condolences
10 years   / Mum (mum)
My darling Jamie I had to write to you today, I sit with the phone in my hand and all i want to do is ring you to speak to, but then it comes to me that i cannot do that. I cannot get my head around the fact that in one week it will be 10 years sinc...  Continue >>
Dropped by to let you know I still think about you   / Lauren Haynes (Family friend )
Everyday infact! I have a picture of you on my photoboard at uni! I only have to look at your big cheesy grin and i cheer up! You help me alot especially when things get me down! You're right next to my grandma Jeans picture and my Grandad Billys! Yo...  Continue >>
Your 24th Birthday   / Mum
Happy Birthday in Heaven Jamie I am sat here with tears pouring down my face. This will be your 10th birthday in heaven and it never gets any easier i miss you so much and i will for as long as i live. Hope your celebrating your birthday with all you...  Continue >>
9 YEARS WITHOUT YOU   / Mum
My darling Jamie I cannot beleive it has been 9 years without you on friday. When we lost you people said in time it will get better well those people cannot of lost a child all a  parent can do is learn to live with the awful pain inside. I can...  Continue >>
missing you so much   / Mum 12/5/10
Hi Jamie I am missing you so much just i do every single day. i should of flown to the uk yesterday but my flight was cancelled. I have booked to come on another flight tonight but i dont beleive it dad has fallen off a ladder and broken his arm i w...  Continue >>
your 23rd birthday  / Mum     Read >>
christmas 2009  / Mum (mum)    Read >>
8 years  / Nikki     Read >>
thinking of you  / Lauren Haynes (family friend )    Read >>
Miss you so much sept 09  / Mum     Read >>
love / Auntie Chelle     Read >>
To such a great friend  / George Temple (school friend/teammate )    Read >>
your 22nd birthday  / Mum     Read >>
Happy Birthday Jamie XXX  / Lucy Smith (Childhood/school friend )    Read >>
thinking about you  / Olivia Evans (School friend )    Read >>
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His legacy
jamies legacy  

When jamie left us, there was a lot of publicity in our local newspapers, the storeys touched the heart of so many people. The paper then decided to raise money to buy twelve new heart monitors for the local hospital. £7,500.00 was needed. The appeal was called  Jamies have a heart. The money started pouring in, we had old age pensioners sending there money that had been to help with there heating bills. local schools did sponserd walks, children. were sending in there pocket mo ney. Within five weeks the money had been raised to buy the heart monitors, but the money still kept coming in so the paper asked if we wanted to carry on raising money for c-r-y (cardiac risk in the young) a charity that helped us so much. lots of events were raised including a fun run organised by keith Jamies dad and his football team they all got dresed up as women to do the run. £7,000.00 was raised alone this day In total £33,000.00 was raised for cry.The heart monitors bought slashed the waiting list by half, so from this jamie has saved many lives.




                                                            





how through Jamie we changed the way our local council runs the village cemetary.
When we came to put the aplication in for Jamies headstone, we wanted to have a photo plaque of Jamie on the headstone, a few days before the headstone was put up the council turned down the application they said a photo plaque would not be allowed they added so much to the heartache we were already going through. The local press, radio, and news got involved with the fight towards the council. Eventually they agreed we could have an etching of jamies photo on the headstone. The stone eventually went up, and then they said we would have to take it down as the etching was 1cm too big, we could not beleive they c ould do this to Jamies family. After one long battle with the council jamie was left to rest in peace with the etching of his photo on the headstone. We have now got things changed at the cemetary, they are  not so petty about rules and regulations as they were before. through jamie other people can maybe have what they want for there loved ones.



                                           

 
JAMIE's Photo Album
jamie with his sister jodie at there grandads retirement do
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